I was a Big Sister with the Big Brothers Big Sisters organization from 2008 through 2015.
I had the pleasure of becoming a friend to my Little Brother as we explored and experienced different activities – from a simple breakfast at IHOP to an evening on the town (Off Broadway magic show and dinner served with cloth napkins.)
I’ve always had a desire to influence young people to safely explore outside of their immediate community and open their minds to the different things that make life interesting. I believe exposure to various types of people and events helps kids (especially in underserved communities) know that there’s hope and possibility for a lifestyle other than what they might be accustomed to.
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Nationwide more than 30,000 “Littles” are waiting to be matched with a “Big” Sister or Brother.
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My Little Brother developed into a fine and respectful young man because he had a good support system at home. I’d like to think that his experiences with me, and our conversations during each outing, helped influence his decision to be a better student and attend a local college. After each new experience, he looked forward to telling his family about it. He encouraged them to try a few new things too.
Older workers have a wealth of experience and the time to enlighten, encourage, and empower young people. As an older person, I have the patience to listen, coach and share personal and professional successes/pitfalls that could be helpful to younger people. I’ve learned not to judge and to appreciate differences in people and their perspectives.
When I am a full-time retiree, I plan to volunteer for Big Brother Big Sister or another organization that strives to empower disenfranchised children in local communities and give them hope for a better future.